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Pets in Your Wedding Ceremony: A Guide for Pet-Loving Couples

Sharon Allam • 11 October 2024

Pets as wedding ceremony guests

Dog Ring bearer

As a wedding celebrant in the UK, I’ve seen many unique and heartwarming wedding ceremonies. One of the most delightful trends I’ve noticed is the inclusion of pets in wedding celebrations. For animal lovers, pets are not just companions; they are family. If you’re considering incorporating your furry friend into your wedding day, here’s a little celebrant advise on why you should and how to do it seamlessly.


🌻Why Include Pets in Your Wedding?🌻


1. They Are Family


Pets hold a special place in our hearts, and including them in your wedding ceremony acknowledges their importance in your lives. Often our fur babies are more important than people in our lives! Whether it's a dog, cat, or even a rabbit, having them present can make the day even more meaningful.


2. Unique Photo Opportunities


Imagine the stunning photographs of you and your partner with your pet by your side. Although beware they do say never work with children or animals!


3. Adding Fun and Liveliness


Pets can bring a sense of joy and playfulness to your wedding. Their natural curiosity and antics can lighten the mood, making for a more relaxed atmosphere.


🌻Tips for Including Pets in Your Wedding Ceremony🌻


1. Choose a Pet-Friendly Venue


Before planning anything, ensure your chosen wedding venue allows pets. Many outdoor venues, gardens, and some indoor locations are pet-friendly, but it’s always best to check in advance.


2. Plan the Role of Your Pet


Decide how you want your pet to participate. Whether that is letting them carry the rings or maybe acting as a flower Pet or possibly they are your guest of honour! Those are just a few ideas.


3. Consider a Pet Sitter


While you’ll want your pet involved, consider having a trusted friend or a professional pet sitter to manage them during the ceremony and reception. This ensures they’re safe and comfortable, especially during long events.


4. Include Them in the Ceremony


Maybe you can acknowledge your pet in your vows or leave it to me, as your celebrant, to mention them during the ceremony.


5. Prepare for the Unexpected tractors


Animals can be unpredictable. Make sure you have a plan in place for any potential issues, such as anxiety or restlessness. Having a safe space for your pet to retreat to can help keep them calm.


🌻Honoring Pets That Can't Attend🌻


For those who have lost a beloved pet, consider including a tribute in your ceremony. You can light a candle, place a photo on a special table, or even mention them in your vows. It’s a beautiful way to honor their memory.


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Including your pets in your wedding ceremony can create unforgettable moments and add a personal touch to your special day. As a wedding celebrant I love to encourage couples find creative ways to incorporate their furry friends into their celebrations. With careful planning, your pet can be a cherished part of your wedding day, making it even more memorable. 


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If you’re planning a wedding and would like to discuss how to incorporate your pet, just get in touch with me and we can talk through a few ideas.



I am a Bedfordshire Celebrant creating fun, warm and colourful wedding ceremonies in Bedfordshire, Hertfordshire, Buckinghamshire, Cambridgeshire, Northamptonshire and beyond. 


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